We all have that one chapter that we only keep so that our life story doesn't have blank spots, but we never read out loud. Usually, it's a time when you have really tried your best and still somehow things went wrong. And no matter how much you relive it again and again and go through every single detail, you still cannot really pinpoint that specific moment when things started to go wrong.
You are what you love, not what loves you. You are what you love and invest your time in. Repeat this to yourself until you stop fighting it. Let this thought sink in and realise that this is where your daily drive and motivation should come from. Only you have the power to define yourself, … Continue reading You Are What You Love
Change is the fuel of progress and while progress seems to be the common goal for all of us, not everyone wants to accept change. We tend to resist it, challenge it, even rebel against it while clinging to what we know.
Questions, random thoughts and the uplifting feeling that you are finally over the worst moment of your life. They all come when your mind is still, they reveal themselves while you're at your most vulnerable self. Last night again I couldn't sleep ... but this time, for a much better reason. After spending an evening … Continue reading The Alchemy of Thoughts
Today my perceptions on love have grown, expanded and I am confident it will continue to evolve as I focus on my own growth. Today I finished reading "Silence" by Thich Nhat Hanh, a lovely book on how to bring silence within yourself to gain the ability of deep listening and cultivate healthier connection with … Continue reading Today I see love to be … (2)
In moments of loss we desperately look for closure. That magical moment when it all makes sense and you can finally move on. We expect to get closure with an apology or an external trigger that can make us find meaning in our past experiences. I was wrong. You don't find closure by hearing what … Continue reading Before Anything Else, Be Good To Yourself
Today I see love to be something you build with another person with patience and kindness. Tomorrow I will probably see it in a different way. But I want to see the progress of my own view on love and how it changes over time. Today I see that: To love a person is to … Continue reading Today I see love to be … (1)
If you're feeling like you're in free fall into a bottomless darkness and you seem to be going further and further away from the light, this is for you. Although it isn't a new idea, seeing it from this perspective gave me clarity in dealing with my pain. So here it goes. While struggling with … Continue reading Collect Your Specs of Light
Today I learned to say "no". "No" to half involved boyfriend and "no" to fake friends. Today I learned to say "no" to the drama that wrong people can bring into your life. Today I learned to say "no" to any friendship that make me feel lonely. Today I accepted that is my own fault for … Continue reading The day I learned to say NO
What do you do when you feel everything you stand for is lost in the cluster of trivial wishes? When we forget what we want most because of what we want now? How do we fight that pain and keep walking when you know you deserve better, when you know you can do better? How … Continue reading I chose my rebellious soul