One of the hardest things I've ever had to do was letting go of what I wanted ... what I thought I needed at that moment for what I wanted my life to be about. And the person I wanted to become. What do you do when everything you stand for is lost in a … Continue reading Choosing Forever Over Now
Tag: Self-Help
Before Anything Else, Be Good To Yourself
In moments of loss we desperately look for closure. That magical moment when it all makes sense and you can finally move on. We expect to get closure with an apology or an external trigger that can make us find meaning in our past experiences. I was wrong. You don't find closure by hearing what … Continue reading Before Anything Else, Be Good To Yourself
Collect Your Specs of Light
If you're feeling like you're in free fall into a bottomless darkness and you seem to be going further and further away from the light, this is for you. Although it isn't a new idea, seeing it from this perspective gave me clarity in dealing with my pain. So here it goes. While struggling with … Continue reading Collect Your Specs of Light
When is good to be selfish?
Being selfish was always seen as a flaw. But what about those moments when being selfish can actually make you a better person? When is ok to be selfish ? 1. It all starts with the person you choose to be and the ways to get there. You can take people's advice and be inspired by … Continue reading When is good to be selfish?
Little things we should let go
There are many little things that we should enjoy everyday. But what about the little things that we should let go? People always have this image on how things are supposed to be and get really attached to it. I used to do this. All the time. I had my way of doing things and … Continue reading Little things we should let go
My mountain top or the flowers on the way?
So where are you now? Where do you want to get? How to enjoy the little things until you get there and not get lost on the way? If you want to get to the top of the mountain, you should better start learning how to climb. Learning something new always takes time, a … Continue reading My mountain top or the flowers on the way?