In moments of loss we desperately look for closure. That magical moment when it all makes sense and you can finally move on. We expect to get closure with an apology or an external trigger that can make us find meaning in our past experiences. I was wrong. You don't find closure by hearing what … Continue reading Before Anything Else, Be Good To Yourself
Today I see love to be something you build with another person with patience and kindness. Tomorrow I will probably see it in a different way. But I want to see the progress of my own view on love and how it changes over time. Today I see that: To love a person is to … Continue reading Today I see love to be … (1)
If you're feeling like you're in free fall into a bottomless darkness and you seem to be going further and further away from the light, this is for you. Although it isn't a new idea, seeing it from this perspective gave me clarity in dealing with my pain. So here it goes. While struggling with … Continue reading Collect Your Specs of Light
What do you do when you feel everything you stand for is lost in the cluster of trivial wishes? When we forget what we want most because of what we want now? How do we fight that pain and keep walking when you know you deserve better, when you know you can do better? How … Continue reading I chose my rebellious soul
I write. I write when I'm happy, when I'm dreaming, when I'm disappointed, when I'm upset ... When I'm angry and the words rush out of me with such a power that the pen cuts through the paper ... just like sometimes words have the power to cut into flash. Deep and without any hope for … Continue reading A writer ?
And then there's passion. Or let's call it lust. Lust for new, lust for people and late night talks. Lust for becoming everything you ever dreamed and choose to surrender yourself to this purpose. Lust for keeping close to you only the people who bring the best out of you. And letting go of those who consume you. Lust for that … Continue reading Ration …
Today I saw a man jump from 39 kilometres/128,000 ft in the stratosphere and it made me feel little. His jump made all my problems and excuses I use to stop myself from going after my dreams look so damn little. His jump made me feel ashamed I didn't try before to break the limits … Continue reading A man, a dream, a jump, a choice …
You want to change the world? Then travel! You want to change the world? Then let the world change you! There is no way you could know what the world needs unless you gain a full perspective. You can't change a world you didn't live in or you never even saw. Talk with people from … Continue reading So travel …
Somebody asked me a tough question today : " Do you consider you grew up a lot until now at almost 23 ?" Even if in my head the answer "Yes!!" was so loud, when I had to answer " Why?"... with minor corrections about the grammar :P, this was my answer : " I … Continue reading And as a grown-up I’ll write my own story
We keep hearing that if we care/love/like a person we should also learn to accept their flaws, but nobody actually tells us how to do that. It's not hard to love a person for her/his qualities, but when you realise that a quality you enjoy can turn into a flaw in certain situations, that can … Continue reading Yin & Yang
A Choice Away 