No fairytale allowed in reality ?

Why we don't remember the fairytale also after the story becomes real?Did we get to the point when we just sabotage our own relationships? Why is it so much easier to remember and focus on the negative aspects of the relationship and not the positive ones? We all know that after those few months of fairytale …

When is good to be selfish?

Being selfish was always seen as a flaw. But what about those moments when being selfish can actually make you a better person? When is ok to be selfish ? 1. It all starts with the person you choose to be and the ways to get there. You can take people's advice and be inspired by …

Little things we should let go

There are many little things that we should enjoy everyday. But what about the little things that we should let go? People always have this image on how things are supposed to be and get really attached to it. I used to do this. All the time. I had my way of doing things and …

My mountain top or the flowers on the way?

  So where are you now?  Where do you want to get? How to enjoy the little things until you get there and not get lost on the way? If you want to get to the top of the mountain, you should better start learning how to climb.  Learning something new always takes time, a …

Write your own story

Don't give up your right on your story. Don't let bad experiences write your story. Choose to change your story into a better one. We might not be able to control what happens to us but we can choose how to react. We choose what we get from that experience and how we let it …

Get angry

Should we all be happy everyday ? Aren't we untitled to have a bad day to sulk in our bed from time to time? I consider myself a strong person but does this mean that I cannot have my frustrations and passive aggressive attitude when I'm just pissed or just having a bad day? I …

Bad is good

A diamon it's a coal that goes through a great deal of pressure and suffering in order to get all the beauty out. It survives incredible extremes of temperatures and pressure to become the hardest, the most imperishable, and the brilliant of all precious stones. So don't run away from things and new experiences because you might get hurt. Do what you want to do now and never regret any choice you made because in that moment that's what you needed to be happy. Suffering can make you become great and strong like a diamon. Allow yourself to suffer, take the best out of that experience and then move on. Suffering is like having a fire cleaning you inside, what the Greeks called "catharsis". And the fire will go slowly away and there will be left just peace, empathy and kindness. A diamond is a transparent gem made of carbon, one of the Earth's most common elements. It's carbon that decided to not remain just carbon but to become unique so it chose to take the hard way in order to become the support of the light. It chose to carry the brightest light and spread it everywhere around it inspite of all the suffering from its past. So go ...Become a diamon. Beautiful, pure, sparkling, strong, lovely.. Chose to shine in the dark.

About “A choice away”

So what is all this about? I guess the title is pretty suggestive. Just in case it isn't ... All this is about those small choices that make you end up in a place you never even dreamed about before.  It's about those random thoughts that influence our choices without even knowing. About those thoughts that …