One of the hardest things I've ever had to do was letting go of what I wanted ... what I thought I needed at that moment for what I wanted my life to be about. And the person I wanted to become. What do you do when everything you stand for is lost in a … Continue reading Choosing Forever Over Now
In moments of loss we desperately look for closure. That magical moment when it all makes sense and you can finally move on. We expect to get closure with an apology or an external trigger that can make us find meaning in our past experiences. I was wrong. You don't find closure by hearing what … Continue reading Before Anything Else, Be Good To Yourself
Today I see love to be something you build with another person with patience and kindness. Tomorrow I will probably see it in a different way. But I want to see the progress of my own view on love and how it changes over time. Today I see that: To love a person is to … Continue reading Today I see love to be … (1)
If you're feeling like you're in free fall into a bottomless darkness and you seem to be going further and further away from the light, this is for you. Although it isn't a new idea, seeing it from this perspective gave me clarity in dealing with my pain. So here it goes. While struggling with … Continue reading Collect Your Specs of Light
“The only thing we have to fear, is fear itself.” Franklin D. Roosevelt Why you should fear the most fear itself ? Because the only way to overcome your fears is to face them and what stops you from doing it is fear itself . Not your abilities to do what you want, not the … Continue reading No fear = no limits
So where are you now? Where do you want to get? How to enjoy the little things until you get there and not get lost on the way? If you want to get to the top of the mountain, you should better start learning how to climb. Learning something new always takes time, a … Continue reading My mountain top or the flowers on the way?
Every person has a best way to deal with their irrational fears and sadness. I have my happy place. We all have one, regardless if we acknowledge it or not. I chose to use it. My happy place is in the arms of person I love. Whenever I feel scared or sad, I just close … Continue reading A happy place makes you stronger
A Choice Away 